I too have been paying attention to what's going on. I've got m y information from a variety of sources, both pro and anti war.
1. We're not the ones who should be going into a conflict with Iran. Israel alone can easily defeat Iran. Saudi Arabia and all the other tremendously wealthy Arab countries have already hired mercenary (Xe Services) armies to attack Iran. Our CIA has supported an armed dissident group and has helped them to infiltrate the highest level of Iranian government.
2. Mahmoud Ahmadinejad actually has very little power. There's a power struggle between the mullahs, or clerics (i.e. the ayatollah), and the powerful IRGC, an army within an army, kind of like Hitler's SS. Ahmadinejad's election may have been rigged, in 2009 there were massive student protests that were brutally crushed. Ahmadinejad also spoke out against that octopus that predicted the world cup winners.
www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/europe/germany/7912418/Mahmoud-Ahmadinejad-attacks-Octopus-Paul.html3. Armed intervention is almost impossible. Russia, China and India are all allied with Iran. Right now, the best thing to do is hope that the military seizes power, or better, that there is a massive uprising.
4. Homosexuality does exist in Iran. This is a great film exploring that concept, although I haven't seen it.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Circumstance_%282011_film%29 Iran is considered a theocracy, the most conservatively religious country in the world. How come it has a government funded stem cell research program and not us?
5. Your mom is right, Iran gets too much of a bad name in the media. We're safe. I saw this on PBS a couple days ago.
www.hulu.com/watch/94075/rick-steves-europe-rick-steves%E2%80%99-iran 6. Iran has done a lot of bad things, but then again the media never tells you about the bad things America has done to Iran, like toppling its democratically elected government and replacing it with a puppet dictatorship.
7. Iran is no way like Nazi Germany. A good portion of the country is opposed to the government, and the military exerts alot of political influence. I'll bet that the CIA will install some military goon as dictator or aid the general populace in their uprising.
8. FYI Iran= Persia. A country with a pretty powerful history. However, most of its leaders are full of crap except for one, Qassem Suleimani
www.guardian.co.uk/world/2011/jul/28/qassem-suleimani-iran-iraq-influence . This guy's a total bad ass and the only person we should be afraid of. He's not some religious nut job like the Ayatollah or some puppet like M.A. Because he's actually a smart, sensible person who understands the limits of Iran's military (allah is not going to grant them victory) he's the only one who poses a real threat to America.